Angela Buchdahl, the first Asian American rabbi ordained in the U.S., became national news in 2022, when she helped defuse a hostage situation at a synagogue. She spoke with PW about her memoir, In Heart of a Stranger: An Unlikely Rabbi’s Story of Faith, Identity and Belonging (Pamela Dorman Books, Oct.), in which she shares how she became a spiritual and religious leader and why looking for home is a universal experience.

What are the book’s themes?

The experience of feeling like a stranger is something that everyone has experienced at one time. Judaism gives us a beautiful blueprint for how that feeling can be a source of empathy, creativity, resilience, and, ultimately, of finding belonging and home. The Jewish journey, beginning with Abraham—leaving home to go to a place of uncertainty where we were strangers, and then, ultimately, finding a sense of home again—is also a way to characterize my story, and my family's stories, and actually the story of many people.

It's deeply important that we all feel that, when we're called to leave what feels familiar and safe, to go to a place of uncertainty and discomfort in order to realize our best selves and ultimately come to our true home.

Who is your primary audience?

I always intended this to be for a universal audience. I call myself a spiritual mutt, growing up with my Buddhist mother, my Jewish father, in a Christian setting, with an evangelical Christian minister as an aunt. This gave me many spiritual vocabularies, and I'm able to translate Judaism in a way that helps Jews and non-Jews appreciate it. The Abraham story is a shared text for all three Abrahamic religions, but even my Buddhist mother found resonance in the texts of the Jewish people.

I'd always wondered why most spirituality books that sell seem to come from a Buddhist perspective, and why there were not more of those books from a Jewish perspective. So while this book is a memoir, the memoir is in service of giving an entry point to my interpretation of Judaism as a wisdom tradition in a way that is accessible for the widest audience. I hope Jews will pick up the book and feel like they understand their Judaism a little bit more, that Christians and Muslims will find resonance in the biblical texts that I reference, and that people who have no faith at all will find, I hope, some spiritual wisdom from this ancient tradition.

How did your Buddhist mother influence your approach to spirituality?

She gave me a sense of spiritual longing, of the way that spirit resides in everything around me, and of how I could feel a sense of deeper connection and awe and wonder.

Does your book address some people's conflation of Judaism with Zionism?

This is a memoir and spiritual guidebook regarding Jewish teachings. My own Judaism has been deeply impacted by Israel, but I do not conflate Zionism with Judaism. I have spoken many times about Israel and about Judaism in my numerous sermons, and they are available online if that is someone’s chief interest. Heart of a Stranger has a very different focus.

The situation in Gaza is constantly in the news. What is your view on this?

It is tragic and upsetting. I am devastated by the thousands of innocent Palestinians who have been killed, who have lost their homes and are starving without enough food. And I despair that there are still hostages—almost two years in captivity—chained underground, without light, food, or water. I pray for the return of the hostages and an end to this war, and I support the long and hard work it will take to create a more peaceful life for everyone in the region.